Friday, July 6, 2007

IT IS INDEED A SAD COMMENT ON OUR SOCIETY THAT...

  • That in order to get justice, a woman had to strip to the near basics to draw attention to her plight and get justice
  • That while she walked, instead of understanding and empathising with her, men leered at her
  • That the police wanted to book her on the charge on indecent exposure in public
  • That despite the fact that she tried to draw attention to her plight by immolating herself outside the police station, no heed was taken of her matter
  • That instead of pulling up the concerned officers who did not take cognizance of her multiple complaints, the police is debating on her mental condition
  • That we still physical and mental harrassment because of dowry
  • That we still have parents who buy grooms for their daughters and term the consideration as 'dowry'
  • That her own parents have not taken her in despite all the emotional and physical torture she faced and she had to live in rented accomodation
  • That her landlords fearing retribution from her in-laws have asked her to vacate their premises
  • That all the people who were aware of the fact that she faced such atrocities did nothing, not even make an anonymous complaint
  • That she has been penalised for having a daughter
  • That her on husband was the perpetrator of all these atrocities
  • That alot of people on seeing Pg. 1 of TOI showing her marching through the city in her underwear got titilated and did not read the entire cover story
  • That alot of people have criticised Pooja for walking on the streets in her undergarments without even asking her why she did so

I can only thank God for the luck and His blessings that I was born into a family where I never faced any bias because I am a Girl and love me for who I am.

I thank God that I married into a family where I am a daughter and not a daughter-in-law (No pun intended)

I thank God for giving me Arjun.

6 comments:

Adi said...

indians wont grow up.
totally pathetic attitude.

Arjun said...

so lucky to have u honey!

Utopia said...

yeah its bloody sad. being a woman for a lot of people is the very bane of their existence, by the way which issue of toi was this? i don't remember reading it or maybe cos i haven't read the paper last 2 days thats why.

SMM said...

this was the either the thursday or the friday issue

Moses John Wesley said...

that despite everything....it was just a sensational news to most -

no sensation - no sense is what the world believes in

Want to say a lot...but.. ssshhhhhh

Unknown said...

the plight of women is sad not only in our country..its the same the world over..the day is not far wen God wil crumple up the world and start all over agn...:-/