Monday, July 30, 2007

Rail Gaadi


Kooo chuk chuk chuk....


Train journeys were so much fun as kids - it meant traveling to a new place, be it for a vacation or because of another transfer. After a certain point, my train journeys meant mostly the Pune-Cal route on our old faithful Azad Hind Express.


It brings back so many wonderful memories - of Mom coming to drop me to Pune the first time, of so many bags scared that I'd left that blue top behind and what if I wanted to wear it suddenly, let aside the fact that I hadn't worn it in the past 2 years, but 'what if' I suddenly wanted to.If I could, I would have probably packed up my entire room, complete with my huge cupboard and Hrithik Roshan posters and my knick-knacks, including that sunset scene painted waaaaaaaaaaay back in class III.


It brings back memories of Mom packing my favourite train ka khana - pasta for dinner and chicken and roti for next day. A 36 hour journey, which more often than not became 40 meant that we'd sleep like there was no tomorrow, prompting other passengers to wake us up to ask if we were feeling okay or needed some medicine. It meant that while leaving Pune, I'd pack noodles and chicken lollipops for the night and for the rest of the journey, we would survive on boiled eggs and coffee and chips and pepsi and other such junk. It meant the yells of joy afetr crossing jamshedpur cuz we were just anthr 3 hours away from home, the jhalmuriwalas boardign from jamshedpur and we talking about how cheap Cal is as compared to Pune, it meant the guys (and some of the gals too) smoking their last fags for sometime and disposing off the bottles, seeing the howrah bridge and crowding onto the door to yell and wave to the parents and family. It meant meeting so many interesting people with whom I might not have otherwise had the chance to speak to - like the trade union leader, the construction worker, the hawker, the old lady who'd walked the dandi march alongwith gandhiji, the young dude all nervous for his interview, the students like us who'd be all broke and ready to run errands for the older passengers so long as they fed us something. It meant hours of adda with friends, hours of antakshari and dumb charades, chatting up that cute guy from Wadia's in the next coupe, it meant endless hours of card games, it meant waiting for Manmad to ahve chinese for dinner and rourkela to have boiled eggs, it meant having poori and alu ki sabzi (radha-pallabi) at khragpur, it meant having that awful coffee at Nagpur (I still say they used the mud outside the station and nto coffee powder) and the last vada pav for sometime at Jalgaon. It meant making sure you had that bag full of khaana and mithai for the hostel failing which one would not be allowed entry. It meants hours of sitting by the window and watching the countyside go by. It meant the time we were nearly 12 hours late cuz we were stranded outside Jamshedpur since a tree had fallen on the tracks. It meant calling home and telling Mom, don't come to the station since we don't know what time we are going to reach Cal (the whole journey is actually an entirely different story and I shall do justice to it in another post sometime). It meant 10 people and 3 tickets, it emant spending the entire journey sitting near the toilets since we didn't have enough seats. In first year it meant breaking the ice with seniors and actually talking to them, not being oveawed byt he fact that they were in their 4th year. It meant the time I came home in third year w/o informing anyone simply cuz I wanted to be with my first Valentine - my Dad. It meant Mom freaking out when she realized that i'd travelled along. Till 2nd year, it meant going home for prep leave. It also meant that in final year going to the station bidding our final adiue to friends (who were my family in Pune) and to my second home - Pune. It meant taking 5 years of my life back to square one.


It meant going from one home to the other.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

JAI HO PRATIBHA DEVI KI !!!!

Pratibha Patil - the first Woman President of India. Despite that there is no sense of pride or joy when I say this.

When we say The President of India, it should inpire awe, respect, pride, patriotism - sadly this lady inspires nothing but a feeling of shame that we have a person (I shall not insult myself by calling her a lady anymore) who has allegedly conspired protected her brother who has a murder charge hanging on his head, someone who swindled funds from a trust fund set up for poor students, someone who claims to talk to godmen long dead and gone, someone who has not cleared debts to the public exchequer, someone who is not aware of the history of the country of which she is the President, someone who has been reported guilty of financial mismanagement of her family bank and financial irregularities in repayment of loans by the Cooperative sugar mills run by the Patil family.... Nope this is not the person I want to represent my country at the international level.

Till June 2007, noone even knew who Pratibha Pail is. She was the last choice for th post of the President....

On the flip side, I'm sure alot of other politicians would however appreciate her being in the same boat as them. Alot of our present day politicans have been accused of murder and have even served time in the jail n such charges. Alot of politicians' families have availed of various benefits using their connections (Remember the petrol pump scam). Politicians in Maharashtra think it is their birthright in fact to misuse loans granted to sugar mills. Well then, I guess our new President is just upholding the national tradition.
Long live Pratibha Patil....Long live our new President
Pratibha Devi ki jai ho jai ho jai ho...........

Sunday, July 15, 2007

Would people think I'm crazy if I say I'm overloaded with work ad I like it and I also like cribbing about the fact that I have too much work?????????

Friday, July 6, 2007

IT IS INDEED A SAD COMMENT ON OUR SOCIETY THAT...

  • That in order to get justice, a woman had to strip to the near basics to draw attention to her plight and get justice
  • That while she walked, instead of understanding and empathising with her, men leered at her
  • That the police wanted to book her on the charge on indecent exposure in public
  • That despite the fact that she tried to draw attention to her plight by immolating herself outside the police station, no heed was taken of her matter
  • That instead of pulling up the concerned officers who did not take cognizance of her multiple complaints, the police is debating on her mental condition
  • That we still physical and mental harrassment because of dowry
  • That we still have parents who buy grooms for their daughters and term the consideration as 'dowry'
  • That her own parents have not taken her in despite all the emotional and physical torture she faced and she had to live in rented accomodation
  • That her landlords fearing retribution from her in-laws have asked her to vacate their premises
  • That all the people who were aware of the fact that she faced such atrocities did nothing, not even make an anonymous complaint
  • That she has been penalised for having a daughter
  • That her on husband was the perpetrator of all these atrocities
  • That alot of people on seeing Pg. 1 of TOI showing her marching through the city in her underwear got titilated and did not read the entire cover story
  • That alot of people have criticised Pooja for walking on the streets in her undergarments without even asking her why she did so

I can only thank God for the luck and His blessings that I was born into a family where I never faced any bias because I am a Girl and love me for who I am.

I thank God that I married into a family where I am a daughter and not a daughter-in-law (No pun intended)

I thank God for giving me Arjun.